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		<title>Embracing the Un-embraceable</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 May 2011 17:32:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bishin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Friends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lesley's Blog]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[fighting cancer]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Jenna Benn]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I was a carefree twenty-something finishing up my degree at McGill University, I met a like-minded spitfire from Chicago named Jenna. She and I came into each other’s lives through men, as our college-age boyfriends were lifelong friends. Over the years we moved on, leaving behind our studies, the boys who introduced us, and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was a carefree twenty-something finishing up my degree at McGill University, I met a like-minded spitfire from Chicago named Jenna.   She and I came into each other’s lives through men, as our college-age boyfriends were lifelong friends.  Over the years we moved on, leaving behind our studies, the boys who introduced us, and eventually our carefree-twenties.  I started my writing career in Montreal, and Jenna went back to her native Chicago and became the Assistant Regional Director of the Anti-Defamation League in the Upper Midwest Region.</p>
<div id="attachment_746" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><a href="http://www.bishinspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/beautiful-Jenna.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-746" title="Beautiful Jenna" src="http://www.bishinspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/beautiful-Jenna-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Beautiful Jenna</p></div>
<p>But then, Jenna’s course changed.  In December of 2010, she was diagnosed with Grey Zone Lymphoma, one of the rarest forms of blood Cancer.  Like everyone else who knew her from our days at McGill, I swallowed the news with a grain of denial, and a heaping spoonful of anger.  Jenna took the news and turned it into a mission.  Not only was she going to conquer cancer, but she was going to educate the rest of us while doing it.</p>
<blockquote><p>“While I willingly accepted the fact that cancer would cause unavoidable physical changes, I was unwilling to allow the disease to rob me of my voice. For the past six months I have struggled with what it means to hold on to my voice and eventually reclaim it. There were moments when I could not talk, but I was communicating. There were moments when I was quiet, but I was really screaming. As I desperately tried to find my voice and struggled to be heard, I realized that I would need to embrace Cancer in order to beat her.” – Jenna Benn</p></blockquote>
<p>In the past five months, Jenna has gone from old college buddy to respected life teacher. With her poignant and honest blog, <a title="kill it in the butt" href="http://www.killitinthebutt@blogspot.com">Kill it in the Butt</a>, Jenna takes a pragmatic look at life, Cancer, and all the good things that can come from embracing a less-than-ideal situation.  Whether you’re a cancer patient,  the friend or relative of a cancer patient, or just someone looking for some good solid life lessons, you’ll be touched by Jenna’s honesty and candid humour.</p>
<p>Today, in the midst of her treatment, when most people would be hiding, <a title="Jenna Benn Huffington Post Article" href=" http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jenna-benn/cancer-a-key-to-the-mind-_b_864146.html?ref=fb&amp;src=sp">Jenna became a featured contributor to the Huffington Post</a>. We can all learn a thing or two from this amazing woman.</p>
<p>To learn more about Jenna and her journey with Cancer visit <a title="kill it in the butt" href="http://www.killitinthebutt@blogspot.com">Kill it in the Butt</a>, or check out her <a title="Jenna Benn Vimeo page" href="http://vimeo.com/23329273">Vimeo page</a>.</p>
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		<title>Suri’s Soiree</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 16:27:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bishin</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[March 27]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sarah “Suri” Gonshor]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This Saturday, March 27, 2010, at 9pm, the Israel Cancer Research Fund is honouring the life of Sarah “Suri” Gonshor at it’s 7th annual new leadership event, aptly titled Suri’s Soiree. This is an occasion which is very close to my heart, not only because the funds go towards eradicating cancer, but because it is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-CA">This Saturday, March 27, 2010, at 9pm, the Israel Cancer Research Fund is honouring the life of Sarah “Suri” Gonshor at it’s 7<sup>th</sup> annual new leadership event,<span> </span>aptly titled Suri’s Soiree.<span> </span><span> </span>This is an occasion which is very close to my heart, not only because the funds go towards eradicating cancer, but because it is a celebration of my dear friend Josh’s sister, who died when she was just 24 years old. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-510" title="sarah-gonshor" src="http://www.bishinspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/sarah-gonshor.jpg" alt="sarah-gonshor" width="67" height="130" />It’s been almost 10 years since Suri </span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">passed away after a difficult three and a half year battle with cancer</span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">, but </span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">she is still very much alive in the hearts and minds of her family, friends, and countless others who she touched in her short life.<span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">Suri was a </span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">community leader, artist, teacher, singer and actor</span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA"> who </span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">enjoyed life to its fullest and valued art in its many forms</span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">.<span> </span>It is with her passions in mind that </span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">Suri’s loved ones have joined forces with ICRF to </span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">out together this incredible event.<span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-CA">Suri’s Soiree, where the impossible is possible, will feature Canadian singer and songwriter <strong>Kuba Oms</strong>, <strong>DJ NV Nazli Var</strong>, who regularly spins at Montreal hot-spot Garde Manger and Grammy award winning musical guest, <strong>COMMON, </strong><span>who<strong> </strong></span>is scheduled to perform a compilation of his most popular hits.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">All of the proceeds from the event will go to ICRF, which has</span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA"> raised more than 33 million dollars</span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA"> to date</span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA"> for over 1800 cancer research projects.<span> </span></span><strong></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">Suri’s friends,</span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA"> family, </span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">ICRF</span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA"> and this blogger </span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">invite you to be part of a celebration of life and art on March 27th, 2010</span><span style="color: black;" lang="EN-CA">, </span><span lang="EN-CA">at the Segal Center for the performing arts.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-CA">Tickets can be purchased online at <a href="http://www.icrfnewleadership.com/">www.icrfnewleadership.com</a></span></p>
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		<title>Following up&#8230; Bandito style</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 18:32:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bishin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Copywriting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marketing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Writing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[CT Moore]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gypsybandito]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently I realized I had to follow up with some colleagues about some information I still required for upcoming articles. I wanted to find a quick, fun and engaging way to get their attention, without being overly annoying and bombarding their email inboxes. My friend and colleague has become a self described social media ninja, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Recently I realized I had to follow  up with some colleagues about some information I still required for upcoming articles.  I wanted to find a quick, fun and engaging way to get their attention, without being overly annoying and bombarding their email inboxes.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.gypsybandito.com/about/">My friend and colleague </a>has become a self described social media ninja, so it occurred to me that I could use his (now rather well known) <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/evablue/sets/72157614309876781/">image </a>to get my point across.  This is what our <a href="http://www.spicydesign.ca/beta/">friend and designer</a> and I came up with over breakfast.</p>
<p>The concept is simple:  Mess with Bishin, and I&#8217;ll unleash the Bandito:<br />
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Not surprisingly, my colleagues have all been a lot more prompt recently.</p>
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		<title>Proximity</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2007 20:04:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bishin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Friends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lesley's Blog]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[experiences]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The best friends in the world are those who you can NOT see for extended periods of time. When you see them, you pick up right where you left off. You get each other. And that, sure as hell isn&#8217;t because you happen to live in the same place. Friendships should not be measured in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The best friends in the world are those who you can NOT see for extended periods of time.<br />
When you see them, you pick up right where you left off.<br />
You get each other.<br />
And that, sure as hell isn&#8217;t because you happen to live in the same place.<br />
Friendships should not be measured in proximity, but rather, in experiences shared, trust built, and  the knowledge that someone out there loves you too.</p>
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		<title>Beckerman&#8217;s Paleontologist</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Apr 2007 18:54:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bishin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Fall 2007 Collection is now up on the Beckerman website! Its called &#8220;The Paleontologist&#8221; It&#8217;s a super cool collection and the site lets you check out backstage pics, and the inspiration! Check out the hot new collection at House of Beckerman]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Fall 2007 Collection is now up on the <a href="http://www.beckermans.com">Beckerman</a> website! Its called &#8220;The Paleontologist&#8221; It&#8217;s a super cool collection and the site lets you check out backstage pics, and the inspiration!</p>
<p><a href="http://img131.imageshack.us/my.php?image=beckermandq5.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://img131.imageshack.us/img131/2135/beckermandq5.th.jpg" border="0" alt="Free Image Hosting at www.ImageShack.us" /></a></p>
<p>Check out the hot new collection at <a href="http://www.beckermans.com">House of Beckerman</a></p>
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		<title>Ridiculous Quote of the Day: Gnomes</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2007 04:04:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bishin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“He took off to Tremblant, and my gnome assassin-mobile&#8211;which is electrically powered because my gnomes are very environmentally conscious&#8211;does not have the range to make it all the way to the Laurentians.&#8221; E. Martz]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“He took off to Tremblant, and my gnome assassin-mobile&#8211;which is electrically powered because my gnomes are very environmentally conscious&#8211;does not have the range to make it all the way to the Laurentians.&#8221;<br />
E. Martz</p>
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		<title>Inspirations</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 03:55:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bishin</dc:creator>
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